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403mice's avatar

literally holding a copy of conflict is not abuse

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Em's avatar

Gallant in the streets, Goofus in the sheets

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Nat's avatar

Fabulous

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Sam's avatar

The way this builds on the 2014 piece is *chefs kiss*

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C Bean's avatar

Hello, apologies, long time reader/admirer etc first time commenter. I'm unsure what T4T means at this point? My understanding was that it was any trans person in a relationship with another trans person but I've seen it used in ways to suggest it's become much more generalised? I am trans myself but not much part of any kind of community/I tend to just lurk and I've become very confused.

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Daniel Lavery's avatar

no, you've got it!

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Harley French (he/they)'s avatar

The ending!! The subcutaneous method... thank you for this post. I am sometimes Goofus and always inspired by your T4T commentary!

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Daniel Lavery's avatar

I am also sometimes Goofus

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J. Woods's avatar

What is the therapeutic threshold dose of T?

Inquiring minds, &cet...

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Daniel Lavery's avatar

That's part of the joke! It varies, and has varied: https://www.sfdph.org/dph/files/THS/HormoneTxAllInOne.pdf

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J. Woods's avatar

Microdosing testosterone gel makes me think of this episode:

https://youtu.be/NxkM9l3fuSQ

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J. Woods's avatar

That's interesting. I had no idea it was so involved.

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