Grace is sick, and we’ve been keeping to home since early last week. How are you? Do you need anything? Looking for ways to help others? Bored at home and want to talk about TV or something? This is for you, then. Welcome!
hi, gang - grace here - just wanted to say thanks for the good wishes; I'm hanging in and Danny is a really skilled and loving caregiver. lucky to have such a husband - and grateful to all of you for saying hi xoxo
I'm rewatching Salt Fat Acid Heat because Samin Nosrat's wamth and palpable joy is so comforting right now and it's distracting me from worrying the immune compromised people in my life.
Perhaps try the foccacia recipe in Gluten Free Baking Classics by Annalise Roberts? I haven't made that particular recipe, but everything in that cookbook is reliably good. (If it's possible to post images here, I can share it if anyone is interested.)
For anyone who doesn't have Netflix (or is a Samin Nosrat completist), there's a Bon Appetit YouTube video where she makes foccacia with Brad, and it is PURE JOY. (Also, can we put links in comments here?)
AS WE SPEAK my boyfriend is in the kitchen mixing stuff up so we can have her buttermilk chicken tonight! Rewatching the show seems like a brilliant idea
Her book was what got me into cooking as a hobby, and tbh the promise of cooking delicious things at home is one of the silver linings I'm currently clinging to now that i'm social distancing and working remote from home. I love her!
I need...emotional upliftment? I had a terrible 2019, and was stuck indoors much of winter 2019-2020, and now with the added push for social distancing, I feel a bit stir crazy. A lot of my social and emotional needs have not been met in the last year or so and I feel very volatile and sad and like nothing will get better.
On a brighter note, I am able to work 100% from home and I have everything that I need materially. I'm grateful for this, just wish I had others to share it with.
PhD student solidarity! I was just talking with another one of us about how this really exacerbates all of the worst aspects of grad school for mental health. She pointed out that at least we're all going through it together, so everyone is hungry for social contact.
My plan is to alternate doing work with reaching out to the people I haven't talked to in ages and always mean to. Normally I would worry that I'll somehow be a bother, but right now you can be pretty much sure that everyone will be excited to have someone to talk to (possibly with a moratorium or time limit on topics that will only stress you both out more).
Extremely relatable! I had a failed surgery at the beginning of 2019 that has limited my mobility, and juuuuusssst had a second surgery last week. Happy to chat here or elsewhere, and to provide cat pics, as well. We got this, we're pros. :muscle emoji:
Wow it sounds like you're in precisely the same boat as me - PhD+job and all. I think the thing that's kind of kept me tethered is the knowledge that this set of circumstances will also change - just as circumstances changed to get me to the place where 2019 was Fucking Rough. We aren't going to be like this forever, AC! It'll definitely change, and meanwhile your main job is to be super nice and gentle to yourself in whatever way you can.
Are you able to go outside? Avoiding crowded places doesn't mean you can't take walks, go to a park, etc! I've been making it a priority to go outside every day and it's really helpful for my mental health.
Yoga, TV and reading. I'm also a PhD student - so in many ways, my lifestyle hasn't changed, it's just that...one likes to have the option of doing fun things outside.
Fellow PhD hi-5!! (I'm defending my dissertation this Wednesday so in all likelihood further along than you but still.) Echoing the above commenter's suggestion to be nice to yourself any way you can - one thing I have found helpful in absence of actually leaving the house is opening the windows, sometimes just hearing people on the street helps.
Not sure how other commenters feel about this, but I have been leaving the house... to take walks in the park. The main thing for me is avoiding public transport and other crowded spaces, and to maintain a respectable distance of six feet from others at all times. (The city where I live isn't super dense so YMMV)
I think going out for walks is perfectly fine and a healthy thing to do! I'm wishing that the weather in Minnesota would warm up so we could enjoy some time outdoors... it's currently snowing.
Thank you! (Just repeating what other people have said already but... PhDs are rough and I definitely considered dropping out at various points. You will be ok!)
I heard also figured I was already mostly self isolated by my remote work, but knowing you *can't* leave is truly a whole different level. Do you have a favorite yoga instruction or are you able to lead yourself? I've been following YogaInMelbourne on YouTube because she is so chill and her rooms are so pretty.
I've been working from home for the past few weeks already (whee weak immune system), and definitely have been having trouble concentrating more than normal.
My last trip out into the word before social isolation was to go pick up your new book at our local bookstore! Something That May Shock & Discredit You is keeping me company today. :)
I bought it the day after it came out and have been reading it in chunks. My friends will probably be grateful when I finish reading it so I'll stop going "Listen—stop what you're doing—DIRTBAG SAPPHO"
I picked it up at your event at the Strand, read it, loved it, and sent it along with my roommate when she went to her fiance's to ride this out, and they are both very excited to read it and be beautifully distracted from coronavirus news.
I started reading your book last night when I couldn't sleep so I could have feelings about gender instead of anxiety about pandemics. The book is very good and it was the right choice.
I had to make the hard decision to cancel an event I'd spent a year planning. It was going to be really rad and queer and a lot of people were excited for it. I know we made the right choice, but we're still mourning it.
Otherwise, I'm finding myself surprisingly well-equipped to deal with this, having been isolated and holed up a lot these past few years. I'm organizing a remote skillshare with my friends and making opportunities for creative types to share their work and collaborate. If anyone wants to hang out and make things, I can send you a link to our Discord server.
Both my partner and I have been fired by our jobs in light of everything happening and we’re kind of worried about money to be frank. Planning on spending the day applying for unemployment, watching Miss Fisher’s Murder mysteries and trying to stay positive about not having any income at the moment
My partner and I are so touched with every one that’s sent us a little help! They wanted to let you all know that if you ever are in LA, elbow bumps and free coffee are yours!
Yeah it was kind of a wild day when we both found out. We’re trying to stay strong, and hope that things go back to normal once things calm down a bit. Do you know LA, the grind never ends
I'm rewatching Gilmore Girls and mapping all the characters on an X/Y quadrant of narcissistic personality disorder and early 2000s charm. Any other old TV suggestions?
Anybody else remember the show Popular? Not sure if it would hold up but some of the actresses (Leslie Bibb, Sara Rue) popped up on this guilty pleasure show American Housewife that has become my bingey background friend. I remember this one line so clearly--Leslie said Sara couldn't be a cheerleader "BECAUSE...YOU'RE...FAT."
It had a terrible theme song too--terrible in a very literal, L Word theme song kinda way where they lay out all the themes of the show. Something about "what matters most in life: character, or rock hard thighs?" - it pops into my head every now & then. I'm not gonna YouTube it, want it to float around my brain as unresolved idle curiosity until I see the show again.
Hey hey! First of all, do you and Grace need anything? Hope you're both holding up well. 💜
I was Very Sad on Saturday when my library announced we were closing to the public. Not because I don't agree that was a wise and important choice! More because kids stuck at home, and their caregivers, maybe need my Children's Room more than ever right now. We also have a lot of families who rely on the library for internet and printer access (so streaming something fun probably isn't a way they're able to cope with being homebound), and some who use it as a safe place to shelter themselves and their children during the day because they are homeless. So far we're only closing for two weeks, and I'm really hoping the "essential staff" who are still clocking in will be able to use that time to identify safe ways we can maybe open our doors back up and provide some support to folks soon.
But! A thing that is making me feel better is that a mom I regularly babysit for and a friend of hers have asked me to sit for their kids over the next couple weeks. They're both single moms in small apartments who need to work from home for the foreseeable future, so they had been feeling panicky about how they were going to do their parenting and professional work at the same time every day now that schools have closed. My sitting for both of their children means that they can split my regular rate for two kids, which makes that childcare affordable to them when it wouldn't be otherwise. So I'm feeling really grateful both that I can offer them some caregiving backup and that I'll still...kind of get to do my job every day? Still keeping kids safe and engaging their imaginations, just in a different way.
That's so kind of you. We're doing well for now; I'm able to run out quickly to shops for things we need, and we have enough money coming in from our day jobs that we can absorb the loss of fees from book sales and speaking engagements without worrying that we can't pay our bills. I just hope I don't get it next -- my fear is that we'll both be sick at the same time.
Oof, I hear you. But I'm so glad that things are manageable. Sending lots of healing thoughts to Grace and Immune System Fortification thoughts to you!
If anyone is looking for yoga AND a way to help someone in need, Emily Joy (who started #ChurchToo) is teaching yoga via Instagram stories this week. Emily and her partner (and heir dog!) lost their home in Nashville during the tornado, so while her yoga class will be free, she'll have her venmo listed. Here's her instagram for more: https://www.instagram.com/emilyjoypoetry/
If anyone wants/ needs a tarot reading via video chat, about the current *gestures grimly* or about whatever, I would love to do that for folks. I have the Scary Cough and a job that can't be worked remotely so I am free... constantly.
I hope grace feels better asap! Let me know if you need anything. We’re okay. I’ve got a gross stomach bug & my kids’ school is closed for the foreseeable future so I am deeply reliant on Disney+ rn and throwing the notion of getting work done out the window. my husband is newly a staff union rep for the hospital he used to work at here in Philly, which is chaotic at the moment lol. it’s a bit of a shit show but we’re getting through. Thanks for doing this. <3
Oh no! My best to you and Grace for her recovery. I also am confined to my home, albeit as a preventative measure, following an unluckily timed sojourn to Europe. No regrets - I caught up with a dear friend I haven’t seen in years, and was most pleased to find that she makes an excellent travel companion in addition to an excellent friend - but I had a rather stressful day on Thursday, when I decided that it was Time To Go, and then ended up stuck on a train for five hours (three! hours! longer! than the journey should have taken), followed by several hours on hold with my airline to rearrange my return flights.
I’m relaxing by watching Nigella Lawson on DVD, whose benignly joyful energy is just what I need right now. Currently she’s making a cauliflower and chickpea salad with harissa, which I’m sure I’ll be making at some point once I’m allowed to go to the shops again 😂
Hopefully Grace does not have other underlying conditions and she will get better quickly. Thanks for the shout out to everyone and the link to the SWC below. I'm thinking its time to reread my favorite novel "100 Years of Solitude" for the 37th time...magical realism may be apropos right now.
Based on how many copies I've sold at my bookstore in the last week, Gabriel Garcia Marquez is having a moment. Especially Love in the Time of Cholera, I alone checked out at least 5 customers buying it. Very fitting, for certain temperaments (not mine, I'm avoiding all plague-y literature for the moment)
It's been popping up in my newsfeed for weeks now, and that pic got the better of my isolation brain. As soon as I unpack our baking stuff, it's fancy funfetti time!!! Advertising works people.
just did yoga (out of boredom), tired of wrestling with fucking blackboard, and I need to work on writing a grant but I JUST DON'T WANT TO. That about sums things up.
Danny, you're a continual joy in my inbox, just, in general and so you know.
In what might be the worst timing on Earth, I got fired about a week ago. If anyone has anything to spare, my Venmo is @the28dogs. I'm hoping to get set up on unemployment soon, but this is a very scary time to be without health insurance.
In much lighter news, I started Godless yesterday and am obsessed - Jeff Daniels as a traumatized, bloodthirsty Mormon! Lady Mary! Merritt Wever wearing men's clothes and kissing girls!
I'm also into season 3 of my first-ever watch of The Sopranos, if anyone wants to chat about the absolute perfection of Edie Falco as Carmella.
Food banks in the bay area (and I would think nationally, though I don't have data) are in dire need of volunteers who are not symptomatic to help prep and deliver groceries.
As more and more people are homebound, those who typically go to food pantries or public schools for their meals have a whole new obstacle to contend with.
I'm a final-year college student in the UK- we've had no information from the university administration about how we'll be examined or whether next term were happen, people are being randomly evicted, it's chaos. If anyone knows of ways to help people in isolation for those who don't have a lot of money to donate/ways to support those who are quarantined alone, it would be great to be able to do something. Much love to you and Grace; your writing has been a light for me.
Thanks, Danny. Just want to say that you’re a light in the world and I’m thankful for you. 💝 Hanging in there with the kids, going on a walk in a few minutes.
Three parts anxiety--one for the coming medical capacity crisis, one for lack of guidance from my job about what we're going to do (I'm a public defender, so just waiting for New York courts to get their act together), and one part guilt about going outside a few times in the past two days.
I'm not generally an anxious person. This is hard!
I know it's a very dry thing but I have a pro Zoom account through work and can set up virtual recurring film clubs, book clubs, stitch n bitch, etc if anyone has suggestions, ideas, or requests. Most likely going to set up movie watching and Friday night shabbat at the very least.
hi, gang - grace here - just wanted to say thanks for the good wishes; I'm hanging in and Danny is a really skilled and loving caregiver. lucky to have such a husband - and grateful to all of you for saying hi xoxo
love you bb girl
you too wonderone
feel better Grace!
I'm rewatching Salt Fat Acid Heat because Samin Nosrat's wamth and palpable joy is so comforting right now and it's distracting me from worrying the immune compromised people in my life.
I would do ANYTHING for her focaccia right now. You are making such a good choice!
If I didn't have celiac I would already be making it!
If you ever do figure it out let me know! I've been celiac since I was a toddler so I've never experienced focaccia and it seems quite wonderful.
I also have celiacs and I love nothing more than watching gluten-full food content like Great british bake off lol
Perhaps try the foccacia recipe in Gluten Free Baking Classics by Annalise Roberts? I haven't made that particular recipe, but everything in that cookbook is reliably good. (If it's possible to post images here, I can share it if anyone is interested.)
For anyone who doesn't have Netflix (or is a Samin Nosrat completist), there's a Bon Appetit YouTube video where she makes foccacia with Brad, and it is PURE JOY. (Also, can we put links in comments here?)
Try the Bon Appetit "Shockingly Easy No-Knead Focaccia." I am an idiot at yeasted doughs and have had repeated success with it.
AS WE SPEAK my boyfriend is in the kitchen mixing stuff up so we can have her buttermilk chicken tonight! Rewatching the show seems like a brilliant idea
On Insta, Samin said they are kind a podcast or something about cooking during this time.
*making a podcast
Her book was what got me into cooking as a hobby, and tbh the promise of cooking delicious things at home is one of the silver linings I'm currently clinging to now that i'm social distancing and working remote from home. I love her!
I love this idea. I need some Samin in my life.
I feel like we need to accept that it's time to rewatch American Vandal as a group
YES
i rewatched the entirety of season 1 in like a 36 hour span this weekend....... will prob keep doing that until this is over
IN
Yes *please*
I need...emotional upliftment? I had a terrible 2019, and was stuck indoors much of winter 2019-2020, and now with the added push for social distancing, I feel a bit stir crazy. A lot of my social and emotional needs have not been met in the last year or so and I feel very volatile and sad and like nothing will get better.
On a brighter note, I am able to work 100% from home and I have everything that I need materially. I'm grateful for this, just wish I had others to share it with.
PhD student solidarity! I was just talking with another one of us about how this really exacerbates all of the worst aspects of grad school for mental health. She pointed out that at least we're all going through it together, so everyone is hungry for social contact.
My plan is to alternate doing work with reaching out to the people I haven't talked to in ages and always mean to. Normally I would worry that I'll somehow be a bother, but right now you can be pretty much sure that everyone will be excited to have someone to talk to (possibly with a moratorium or time limit on topics that will only stress you both out more).
Extremely relatable! I had a failed surgery at the beginning of 2019 that has limited my mobility, and juuuuusssst had a second surgery last week. Happy to chat here or elsewhere, and to provide cat pics, as well. We got this, we're pros. :muscle emoji:
Me too... I have surgery this week that they havent canceled, but I hope I get my mobility back. Let's all hope the cats keep us strong.
Wow it sounds like you're in precisely the same boat as me - PhD+job and all. I think the thing that's kind of kept me tethered is the knowledge that this set of circumstances will also change - just as circumstances changed to get me to the place where 2019 was Fucking Rough. We aren't going to be like this forever, AC! It'll definitely change, and meanwhile your main job is to be super nice and gentle to yourself in whatever way you can.
Are you able to go outside? Avoiding crowded places doesn't mean you can't take walks, go to a park, etc! I've been making it a priority to go outside every day and it's really helpful for my mental health.
I'm so sorry to hear that! Cabin fever is a huge Thing with me. What do you do on your own for fun?
Yoga, TV and reading. I'm also a PhD student - so in many ways, my lifestyle hasn't changed, it's just that...one likes to have the option of doing fun things outside.
Fellow PhD hi-5!! (I'm defending my dissertation this Wednesday so in all likelihood further along than you but still.) Echoing the above commenter's suggestion to be nice to yourself any way you can - one thing I have found helpful in absence of actually leaving the house is opening the windows, sometimes just hearing people on the street helps.
Not sure how other commenters feel about this, but I have been leaving the house... to take walks in the park. The main thing for me is avoiding public transport and other crowded spaces, and to maintain a respectable distance of six feet from others at all times. (The city where I live isn't super dense so YMMV)
I would feel fine going outside, as long as you aren't near people or touching things other people will touch.
Congrats on being so close to defending! That's so exciting.
Good luck on your defense!! I'm defending in the fall.
I think going out for walks is perfectly fine and a healthy thing to do! I'm wishing that the weather in Minnesota would warm up so we could enjoy some time outdoors... it's currently snowing.
Good luck with your defence!
Thank you! (Just repeating what other people have said already but... PhDs are rough and I definitely considered dropping out at various points. You will be ok!)
Congrats and good luck on your defense!
Thank you!
I heard also figured I was already mostly self isolated by my remote work, but knowing you *can't* leave is truly a whole different level. Do you have a favorite yoga instruction or are you able to lead yourself? I've been following YogaInMelbourne on YouTube because she is so chill and her rooms are so pretty.
ooh I'm gonna check YogaInMelbourne out thanks!
When double checking, I realized I've been misreading it for months! YoginiMelbourne
PhD love from the Netherlands <3
I've been working from home for the past few weeks already (whee weak immune system), and definitely have been having trouble concentrating more than normal.
What are you researching?
My last trip out into the word before social isolation was to go pick up your new book at our local bookstore! Something That May Shock & Discredit You is keeping me company today. :)
That means so much to me -- thank you. I hope you have a wonderful time reading it!
I was hooked from the first chapter! Childhood rapture fear is so real 😳
I bought it the day after it came out and have been reading it in chunks. My friends will probably be grateful when I finish reading it so I'll stop going "Listen—stop what you're doing—DIRTBAG SAPPHO"
I share the same sentiment as Linnea! I just got my copy of your book, and it is a delight from page to page.
I picked it up at your event at the Strand, read it, loved it, and sent it along with my roommate when she went to her fiance's to ride this out, and they are both very excited to read it and be beautifully distracted from coronavirus news.
I started reading your book last night when I couldn't sleep so I could have feelings about gender instead of anxiety about pandemics. The book is very good and it was the right choice.
You are going to LOVE IT. Book of the year. I am not biased at all. But also I have loved all of Danny's books and this is my favourite.
I just finished it yesterday — you’ll love it!
I had to make the hard decision to cancel an event I'd spent a year planning. It was going to be really rad and queer and a lot of people were excited for it. I know we made the right choice, but we're still mourning it.
Otherwise, I'm finding myself surprisingly well-equipped to deal with this, having been isolated and holed up a lot these past few years. I'm organizing a remote skillshare with my friends and making opportunities for creative types to share their work and collaborate. If anyone wants to hang out and make things, I can send you a link to our Discord server.
That really sucks. I'm sorry. Thinking of you and hope you end up getting to do it again down the road.
Yay! I sent you a friend request. Or you can just use this link: https://discord.gg/hFykHr
Both my partner and I have been fired by our jobs in light of everything happening and we’re kind of worried about money to be frank. Planning on spending the day applying for unemployment, watching Miss Fisher’s Murder mysteries and trying to stay positive about not having any income at the moment
My partner and I are so touched with every one that’s sent us a little help! They wanted to let you all know that if you ever are in LA, elbow bumps and free coffee are yours!
I do, thank you! ❤️My Venmo is badfolklorist
Yeah it was kind of a wild day when we both found out. We’re trying to stay strong, and hope that things go back to normal once things calm down a bit. Do you know LA, the grind never ends
I'm rewatching Gilmore Girls and mapping all the characters on an X/Y quadrant of narcissistic personality disorder and early 2000s charm. Any other old TV suggestions?
The O.C.!
Veronica Mars?
I mean, always, always Buffy. Or Pushibg Daisies!
Buffy has been my drug of choice.
Pushing Daisies was such a good TV show
Sabrina the Teenage Witch (the one from the 90s! Say hi to Aunt Science Bae, Zelda)
Salem!
Sex and the City! Especially as you enjoy mapping character flaws!
Anybody else remember the show Popular? Not sure if it would hold up but some of the actresses (Leslie Bibb, Sara Rue) popped up on this guilty pleasure show American Housewife that has become my bingey background friend. I remember this one line so clearly--Leslie said Sara couldn't be a cheerleader "BECAUSE...YOU'RE...FAT."
Yes! I am still haunted by this show’s emphasis on being “a perfect size 2” and so thin that other girls covet your visible hip bones.
It had a terrible theme song too--terrible in a very literal, L Word theme song kinda way where they lay out all the themes of the show. Something about "what matters most in life: character, or rock hard thighs?" - it pops into my head every now & then. I'm not gonna YouTube it, want it to float around my brain as unresolved idle curiosity until I see the show again.
Friends! Grey's Anatomy!
would love to see your results- this sounds fun
The X-Files is a treasure trove of personality disorders.
Hey hey! First of all, do you and Grace need anything? Hope you're both holding up well. 💜
I was Very Sad on Saturday when my library announced we were closing to the public. Not because I don't agree that was a wise and important choice! More because kids stuck at home, and their caregivers, maybe need my Children's Room more than ever right now. We also have a lot of families who rely on the library for internet and printer access (so streaming something fun probably isn't a way they're able to cope with being homebound), and some who use it as a safe place to shelter themselves and their children during the day because they are homeless. So far we're only closing for two weeks, and I'm really hoping the "essential staff" who are still clocking in will be able to use that time to identify safe ways we can maybe open our doors back up and provide some support to folks soon.
But! A thing that is making me feel better is that a mom I regularly babysit for and a friend of hers have asked me to sit for their kids over the next couple weeks. They're both single moms in small apartments who need to work from home for the foreseeable future, so they had been feeling panicky about how they were going to do their parenting and professional work at the same time every day now that schools have closed. My sitting for both of their children means that they can split my regular rate for two kids, which makes that childcare affordable to them when it wouldn't be otherwise. So I'm feeling really grateful both that I can offer them some caregiving backup and that I'll still...kind of get to do my job every day? Still keeping kids safe and engaging their imaginations, just in a different way.
That's so kind of you. We're doing well for now; I'm able to run out quickly to shops for things we need, and we have enough money coming in from our day jobs that we can absorb the loss of fees from book sales and speaking engagements without worrying that we can't pay our bills. I just hope I don't get it next -- my fear is that we'll both be sick at the same time.
Oof, I hear you. But I'm so glad that things are manageable. Sending lots of healing thoughts to Grace and Immune System Fortification thoughts to you!
If anyone is looking for yoga AND a way to help someone in need, Emily Joy (who started #ChurchToo) is teaching yoga via Instagram stories this week. Emily and her partner (and heir dog!) lost their home in Nashville during the tornado, so while her yoga class will be free, she'll have her venmo listed. Here's her instagram for more: https://www.instagram.com/emilyjoypoetry/
Thanks for sharing this!!
If anyone wants/ needs a tarot reading via video chat, about the current *gestures grimly* or about whatever, I would love to do that for folks. I have the Scary Cough and a job that can't be worked remotely so I am free... constantly.
I'd love a Tarot reading! Can I venmo you for it?
absolutely! email me at jamiebeckenstein [at] gmail and we can pick a video format
sent!!
I'm going to just start randomly calling friends on the phone because why not.
call me later!! I'm off work at 2!
Nothing's shocking
I hope grace feels better asap! Let me know if you need anything. We’re okay. I’ve got a gross stomach bug & my kids’ school is closed for the foreseeable future so I am deeply reliant on Disney+ rn and throwing the notion of getting work done out the window. my husband is newly a staff union rep for the hospital he used to work at here in Philly, which is chaotic at the moment lol. it’s a bit of a shit show but we’re getting through. Thanks for doing this. <3
oh I'm so glad to hear you're doing okay, and I hope the kids are finding Disney+ etc to be HYPNOTICALLY INTERESTING
Oh no! My best to you and Grace for her recovery. I also am confined to my home, albeit as a preventative measure, following an unluckily timed sojourn to Europe. No regrets - I caught up with a dear friend I haven’t seen in years, and was most pleased to find that she makes an excellent travel companion in addition to an excellent friend - but I had a rather stressful day on Thursday, when I decided that it was Time To Go, and then ended up stuck on a train for five hours (three! hours! longer! than the journey should have taken), followed by several hours on hold with my airline to rearrange my return flights.
I’m relaxing by watching Nigella Lawson on DVD, whose benignly joyful energy is just what I need right now. Currently she’s making a cauliflower and chickpea salad with harissa, which I’m sure I’ll be making at some point once I’m allowed to go to the shops again 😂
Hopefully Grace does not have other underlying conditions and she will get better quickly. Thanks for the shout out to everyone and the link to the SWC below. I'm thinking its time to reread my favorite novel "100 Years of Solitude" for the 37th time...magical realism may be apropos right now.
Based on how many copies I've sold at my bookstore in the last week, Gabriel Garcia Marquez is having a moment. Especially Love in the Time of Cholera, I alone checked out at least 5 customers buying it. Very fitting, for certain temperaments (not mine, I'm avoiding all plague-y literature for the moment)
Very interesting!! I can understand the reluctance to read LTC. Marquez is so mesmerizing that I find myself living out the narratives as I read them.
Danny, you're a delight, and I hope Grace recovers soon!
My spouse and I just moved 3000 miles for an airline job, a decision which, in light of current events, is looking...questionable.
BUT I'm here to share the one thing that's lightening my day today, which is this nytimes rainbow sprinkle cake recipe: https://cooking.nytimes.com/recipes/1018364-rainbow-sprinkle-cake?em_pos=medium&emc=edit_ck_20170326&nl=cooking&nlid=75870329&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI88mNsKCf6AIVyiCtBh3sqwFbEAAYASAAEgJdq_D_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds
(Here's an unaltered non-paywall version: http://diana212m.blogspot.com/2018/03/yay-its-wednesday-cake.html)
It's been popping up in my newsfeed for weeks now, and that pic got the better of my isolation brain. As soon as I unpack our baking stuff, it's fancy funfetti time!!! Advertising works people.
Someone shared this NYC based info/aid list if anyone wants: https://docs.google.com/document/d/18WYGoVlJuXYc3QFN1RABnARZlwDG3aLQsnNokl1KhZQ/preview
just did yoga (out of boredom), tired of wrestling with fucking blackboard, and I need to work on writing a grant but I JUST DON'T WANT TO. That about sums things up.
Danny, you're a continual joy in my inbox, just, in general and so you know.
In what might be the worst timing on Earth, I got fired about a week ago. If anyone has anything to spare, my Venmo is @the28dogs. I'm hoping to get set up on unemployment soon, but this is a very scary time to be without health insurance.
In much lighter news, I started Godless yesterday and am obsessed - Jeff Daniels as a traumatized, bloodthirsty Mormon! Lady Mary! Merritt Wever wearing men's clothes and kissing girls!
I'm also into season 3 of my first-ever watch of The Sopranos, if anyone wants to chat about the absolute perfection of Edie Falco as Carmella.
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you get on unemployment soon, and in the meantime thank you for sharing your Venmo.
And Edie!! SHE KILLS ME!
At least once an episode I point at the TV and yell, "LOOK AT HER FACE!!" Because it's just so...much!
Food banks in the bay area (and I would think nationally, though I don't have data) are in dire need of volunteers who are not symptomatic to help prep and deliver groceries.
As more and more people are homebound, those who typically go to food pantries or public schools for their meals have a whole new obstacle to contend with.
https://www.sfmfoodbank.org/volunteer/
https://www.accfb.org/volunteering/
I'm a final-year college student in the UK- we've had no information from the university administration about how we'll be examined or whether next term were happen, people are being randomly evicted, it's chaos. If anyone knows of ways to help people in isolation for those who don't have a lot of money to donate/ways to support those who are quarantined alone, it would be great to be able to do something. Much love to you and Grace; your writing has been a light for me.
Thanks, Danny. Just want to say that you’re a light in the world and I’m thankful for you. 💝 Hanging in there with the kids, going on a walk in a few minutes.
I don't have a... Great relationship with my parents and was working to get out of this house when, uh, all this happened. So.
Upshot is I'm always anxious anyway so it's finally my time to shine, baby.
What else. I finished reading WicDiv. Anyone watch Joe Pera Talks With You? I think it might be one of my favorite shows now.
Joe Pera is SO soothing!
Hi Danny! I wish Grace a fast recovery and would love to hear what tv you are watching.
The Sopranos, for the FIRST TIME!
I am very excited to read anything you write about The Sopranos!
Enjoy the ride!
Three parts anxiety--one for the coming medical capacity crisis, one for lack of guidance from my job about what we're going to do (I'm a public defender, so just waiting for New York courts to get their act together), and one part guilt about going outside a few times in the past two days.
I'm not generally an anxious person. This is hard!
I know it's a very dry thing but I have a pro Zoom account through work and can set up virtual recurring film clubs, book clubs, stitch n bitch, etc if anyone has suggestions, ideas, or requests. Most likely going to set up movie watching and Friday night shabbat at the very least.